Archive | April, 2013

Prenatal screenings: Check again

5 Apr

During breakfast this morning, I read this article in the Wall Street Journal about prenatal screenings. I assume that the tests/screenings the article is talking about is the sequential screening that we were offered at 13 weeks to test for Down’s Syndrome and a few other genetic disorders. We opted not to do the sequential screening, mostly because our insurance didn’t cover it, but also because we wouldn’t terminate the pregnancy regardless of the result. We did do the quad screen test at 17 weeks, because the doctor said it would influence treatments later in pregnancy if anything was found.

Anyway, I thought the article was interesting. I was aware that the tests were fairly new, but didn’t fully realize the big shift that it was making in prenatal care. Or that some people use these tests as the end-all, be-all diagnosis for their embryo. When our doctors talked to Travis and I about the sequential screening, they did say that false-positives were possible and that they would confirm any positive with additional testing, like an amniocentesis. So when I read in this article that a healthy embryo had been terminated based on a false-positive from a sequential screening test, I started crying.

I’ve always been against abortions, but the experience of pregnancy has made it so much more tangible that the bundle of cells in my uterus is a person. From the day of conception. A little baby who, God willing, will grow into a child, a teenager, an adult that has a personality completely unique to them. Who am I to decide that their life is worth or not worth keeping? Who am I to decide that this one should be given life, while this one shouldn’t?

I know this a touchy subject so I’ll stop there. But I will urge any pregnant woman, if you get genetic testing done, at least make sure the results are conclusive before you make a decision.

And even then, remember that miracles do happen.

Cankles are here to stay.

3 Apr

canklesPretty, huh?

It’s actually kind of funny to see them after I wear socks. I’ll spare you though.

For a while, my ankles only got swollen after sitting all day at work, or traveling, or standing on my feet for a while. Now they’re just constantly swollen. Even the three pairs of flats that I’ve been wearing to work for the past 3 months are getting tight. When I wear tennis shoes on my walks, they’re laced up almost as loose as they’ll go (when it’s nice outside, I just go for the flip flops instead). When I kneel and sit on my heels, it feels like I’m wearing gel pads on the tops of my feet. And twisting my feet to the side is actually pretty uncomfortable.

Anyway, it’s not that bothersome, just kind of humorous (my doctor is not concerned about the swelling, since my blood pressure is fine) – and one more reason why I’m glad that Friday is my last day of work!

 

Pregnancy Update: 39 Weeks

1 Apr

39w0dYep, still pregnant. Emma will be an April baby!

But I’m actually ok with that for the most part. Part of me hopes that Emma waits another 10 days or so, so that I can enjoy not working for a few days before having to take care of a newborn. If she doesn’t get that memo, oh well. But it’d just be nice to laze around for a few days instead of going straight from working full-time to baby care.

Really, the main reason why I’d rather not be pregnant at this point is to sleep better at night and we all know that there won’t be much sleeping happening anyway once Emma comes, so I’d settle for just a few days of rest. I am glad that I’ve been working up until this point, but I’m definitely ready to be done. This is my last week!

I had my 39 week appointment this afternoon and the doctor said that I’ve made progress since last week. Emma is lower down in my pelvis, and I’m dilated 1 cm, 50% effaced. And we’re both still healthy, so that’s good. No talk of induction as of now (but there probably will be at my appointment in a week, if I make it until then). I’m really hoping to avoid being induced, because I think that will really lower my odds of being able to go without an epidural. But in the end, the most important thing is that Emma is healthy.

On Saturday, Travis and I helped out at our friend’s race, which was rescheduled from the previous weekend due to the snowstorm. It wasn’t that bad being at the race 39 weeks pregnant but afterward, my hips were killing me. I guess that means I overdid it. Luckily, they loosened back up yesterday after moving around a bit and taking a walk.

For Easter yesterday, Travis and I went to church but then we spent the rest of the day as a normal Sunday, since all of our friends were all doing family stuff and we don’t have any family nearby. We didn’t even have a special meal or anything. I was exhausted from Saturday anyway so I took a nap and then tided up the house, did laundry and cleaned. I probably would’ve done none of that except the nap part, but I don’t want to be caught with a dirty house if Emma decides to show up this week. Kind of a weird/sad Easter but it is what it is.

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Workouts last week:

S: 1.6 mile walk

T: 1.15 mile walk

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Symptoms: Decreased Braxton Hicks, mild swelling, hip/inner thigh pain at night, heaviness/pelvic pressure

Cravings: Gatorade, licorice

Emotions: My due date being 6 days away feels very surreal. And I feel tired.

Weight Gained: Not sure, but I think 1-2 lbs? (31-32 lbs total)

Rings on or off: Off

Belly button in or out: Flat, but maybe starting to poke out a bit

Stretch marks: Just one, above my belly button where I had it pierced

Baby purchases this week: None

What I Miss: Wardrobe with more variety, sleeping through the night without getting up to pee or having crazy dreams – last night, I dreamed that Emma turned out to be a boy and I had only brought a pink outfit to the hospital so that’s what we had to dress him in.

Best moment this past week: Glorious naps on Saturday and Sunday

Looking forward to: Only 4 days of work left after today!